Here's what disturbing I learned about HOPE!

I have two contrasting points to write about the human mechanism of Hope.

Let us think about a situation where you might have been stuck or have to deal with a very tense situation, your ideal brain's first thought would be like "F***! I just 'hope' this isn't as bad as it seems" or "I just hope that I can ace this s***". Ordinarily, hope is said to be a 'positive state of mind' which makes us a human being. But is this hope really what makes us go through the whole thing?

The human mechanism of hope isn't as simple as it seems. What you hope for is more likely what you want to achieve. You don't even stop this when situations are strictly out of your control. The Hope factor is therefore that force within you which makes you expect the positive side of anything but what happens when you don't achieve what you been hoping for?

It is then my friends that the problem starts occurring and your shits just starts coming back on you. What if I hope that I will make this blog work and make good contents so that I start earning(Yeah maybe) but after trying my ass off, this blog fails(I just hope not). Or maybe, what if I start a business and take a loan form a bank hoping that I will pay it off soon and I fail? In both the circumstances, It was the hope that kept me alive and now it will be the same hope that will break me apart.

Okay this is a little serious now!

Did you ever wonder what is the root cause of suicidal among those students who hoped to ace their exams but failed considerably in their own eyes? Or may be for instance any person who had high hopes like me which he thought was achievable but failed? While many of you might suggest that it was the hope mechanism that help rescued others by showing them that there "is a light at the end of the tunnel", you can't forget that some actually actually took their life because they believe that what they were trying to achieve was that light in itself.

You hope for a lot of things and sometimes you work hard to achieve them which is why hope is called as a positive thing. However, you cannot just make a blind eye to all the problem which is caused by your own mechanism of hope. What I mean is that Hope is a patchy or a double edged perspective of your mind and therefore, a root issue of every problem in your life. The mechanism of hope may suck when you speak about it but it does count as a valuable thing trying to save people by actually showing them that light at the end of the tunnel is still visible.

We are all so engrossed in this mechanism of hope that we actually don't know what to do when things start moving out of your hands. Yesterday I was reading about Emotional Intelligence and came to know about how important is hope for someone. Think about that salesman who sells different product from house to house carrying that big bag in any weather condition. The only reason why he wakes up in the morning and goes for the work is because he believes in himself and hopes that he will sell some products today. This is why hope is equally important in life.